How Do I KNOW?
Excuse me while I think out loud...
How do you know if he is the one? I am in a relationship right now in which I THINK he is the one. But sometimes I wonder. How am I supposed to know if in 50 years he will still be the man for me? In the last couple years I have learned so many things about him - some I love, some I deal with, but overall he is a great man. We have a great time together. We watch movies, take walks on the beach, work out together, have family dinners together, vacation, have deep conversations, pray together, read in bed at night together, talk about our future. I can see myself looking into his face and saying 'I do.'
The more I think about I do, the more scared I get. I was in a loooong relationship before him that was disastrous. He was a complete self centered, narcissistic, manipulative jerk. He was fun, hilarious, and a great lover - but that was it. He messed up my world. After him, I thought I'd never trust or love again. For years after I finally wiped my hands clean of him, I dated a lot, but never opened up. Until I met my babe. He changed everything, he made love easy.
Now, I'm having second doubts. How can I know he will be faithful to me? After all, he is just a man! How can I really put so much trust into ONE person? I feel so vulnerable and naked, lately I've been bursting into tears just thinking about getting my heart broken - and for no real reason! What the hell is up? Thoughts?
PMS?
Peace
posted by Peace @ 3:20 PM
12 Comments:
First in line BITCHES!!!
I say it's PMS honey...
We all go thru that at some point - and yeah, you're right - he's merely a man, but keep in mind that all things in life serve as a lesson. One of the biggest mistakes in a relationship is lack of open communication. Couples should grow TOGETHER while maintaining their own sense of self.
It's fine to put all your eggs in HIS basket, but remember the thing that drew him to you in the first place...just BEING YOURSELF. Why spend your time having anxieties over whether or not he'll break your heart?
He is human and even if he DID ever break your heart, it would be up to you to either forgive him and accept him back into your heart or to simply walk away having learned yet another lesson.
Don't be afraid to embrace growth because it's all part of the process. And if you MUST, you can even use my marriage to XL as an example of how strong love CAN be. He gets on my LAST FUCKIN NERVE with his bullshit, but I know (as does he) that nobody is gonna put up with him the way I do and vice versa. It takes a strong man to deal with MY shit!! So it must be love!!
Can't wait til the weekend!! We're gonna have soooooooo much fun!!! Think u can come a little early to help me set up???
i don't think you know know... i thnk you just know. confused... yeah me too....caus ei don't think i know and i'm married... i'd rather be by myself and just not have a man period.
you comment on everybody blog but your own!! what is up with that!!!
WELL I CAN'T REALLY TELL YOU IF HE IS THE ONE FOR YOU...BUT I CAN SAY THAT I FOUND MY MATE AT THE AGE OF 12, YEAH 12 HE WAS 17. 10 YEARS PASSED BY US AND HE HAD 2 BOYS AND WELL ALL I HAD WAS A LIL ANGEL THAT WENT TO HEAVEN. HE WAS MY FIRST KISS, IT WAS WIERD BECAUSE AFTER WE STARTED DATING WE WERE ABLE TO PICK UP WHERE THINGS LEFT OFF. SO I'M SENDING YOU LOTS OF LUCK, SWEETY.
Shit...can you BLOG ALREADY??
The hell?? You still ain't blogged...
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